Ok so sometimes we have a real shepherds dinner. With what the Shepherds would have really eaten, grapes, olives, pomegranates, fish and bread.
Ok so sometimes we have a real shepherds dinner. With what the Shepherds would have really eaten, grapes, olives, pomegranates, fish and bread.
We make candy canes cookies every year when we talk about the Shepherds. We always discuss the symbolism of the candy cane and make these cookies.
Holidays and Traditions can either be a source of frustration or a source of heaven, often at the very same time. This year I altered one of my favorite traditions to become even more splendid. I learned sometimes we try and do too much and try and make traditions too complicated and it makes it less fun. Simple is better.
Grandma Martin’s Fruit Salad
Here is a personal disclosure. I love to sing. But I am not at all good at singing. In fact, I am so bad at singing my baby daughter cries every time I sing. I am not offended, I think it is kind of funny that she is so young and already knows how horrible I am. My poor other kids have grown up with me singing to them every night, and they are just trained to think I am good, they have no idea how bad I am. But I like to think, that in the Pre-earth life I wasn't so bad at singing, and I like to pretend that maybe I was part of the heavenly host singing about the birth of the Savior.
Anyhow, to celebrate the angel I would love to take my family Christmas Caroling, but that is WAY out of my comfort zone, think if the 18 month old cries, what adults would do when they heard me sing, I would be publicly shamed. So instead, we sing every Christmas Hymn we can think of this night. And then for the rest of the month we sing a song or two at night when we say our family prayers. I think this is one of my favorite traditions.
If you are looking for a real simple way of adding Christ into your traditions Emily Belle Freeman has a great book out there. Christ Centered Christmas. you can get the adult version.
After almost an entire year of talking about it, we finally did it! My sister and I just recorded our first podcast. It is scheduled to drop on Sunday! I am so excited to hopefully be able to reach more people this way! We have been learning so much as we have been studying traditions of the bible we really wanted to share it with everyone! This is how we are going to try and do it!
The first podcast was about Hanukkah. We felt it only appropriate to start there because Hanukkah is really were our journey studying biblical holiday's began for both of us. Honestly, it is a bit rough, we realize we have room to improve, but not bad for two armatures who have no Idea what we are doing.
One thing that is hard for me is figuring out which aspects we want to share! There is so much I have learned and I want to share everything!
But here it is, in all it's glory.
https://youtu.be/Mf_Xejachu0
Holy Cow I can't believe we really did it!
You think of Christ being dead for three days, but really he was only dead for one full day. He died at 3:00 pm on Friday, and was resurrected just as the sun rose on Sunday. So the only full day Christ was dead for was Saturday, which was the Sabbath. The scriptures doesn't say anything about Saturday. It can be assumed that Christ's disciples observed the sabbath, it can be assumed they wept for the loss, some might assume they hid. However it doesn't say. So Saturday is the day that we talk about Easter in The Book of Mormon. In the past we have read, Three Days without Light: a Nephite Easter Story. I highly recommend it.
And did those feet in ancient time,
Walk upon England's mountains green:
And was the holy Lamb of God,
On England's pleasant pastures seen!
1 package of crescent roll dough
Bag of big marshmallows
melted butter
cinnamon sugar
The trials of Christ were rushed, so that the task could all be completed before the sabbath. Christ suffered in Gethsemane Thursday Evening and was then betrayed by Judas, Through the night he was tried several different times. Just like the Passover lamb was declared perfect and suitable for sacrifice, Pilot declared Christ of any wrong doing and he was a just man. Christ too was declared perfect. (see Luke 23: 14).
Despite being found innocent, Christ was still sentenced to crucifixion. To teach about the crucifixion story we use the resurrection eggs. You can look up all sorts of these on pintrest, or you can even buy them on amazon. This one is so cheep it is almost worth it to just buy it as opposed to make it.
In final fulfillment of the Passover Christ died during the 9th hour. The very hour the lambs were being slaughtered at the temple, Christ died on the cross. When Christ declared it "it is finished" he knew he had completed what he had been sent to do, he then willing gave up his spirit to God and willed himself to die. He could not be killed. He could have saved himself, because he was God he had to tell his spirit to leave his body. I wonder if he had to have faith that in that step it wasn't eternal, that he truly would be resurrected.
After we go through the resurrection eggs. We dye Easter eggs. For a long time I have struggled with the connection of Easter Eggs to the true meaning of Easter. and have wondered if it is simply a distraction from the true meaning of Easter. When I was in college I spent a summer in Romania doing research in the Orphanages. In Romania they die eggs and see who can get them the reddest. Also died eggs are a huge part of the Romanian and Ukrainian Cultures, very religious, they are Christmas decorations, and very religious decorations. While there I learned that the custom of dying Easter Eggs came from the Tradition that Mary had a bowl of hard boiled eggs at the cross, she collected the blood of Christ in the bowl and it died the eggs red. But still it seemed a bit odd, why would Mary have eggs at the cross. And why even more importantly would she collect the blood of Christ. Then while I was studying the Passover, I learned that hard boiled eggs were apart of the Passover meal, mostly likely because they were the traditional food of mourning. I can now see why Mary may have had a bowl of eggs. It had been a long day, long night. it would make sense that through it all, someone may have offered an act of charity and brought food for the morning women that never left his side. And if they brought food it would have most likely been hard boiled eggs. but why would they have collected the blood? Well If Christ was truly the Passover lamb and had to be fulfilled in every aspect. the blood of the Passover lamb was collected. It make sense to me now, That the woman, who were in tune enough to understand what was happening, who made sure he was anointed, who never left his side, would have also realized that someone needed to collect the blood of the lamb, to fulfill the law. If the only bowl they had was brought to them full of eggs. I can now see why the blood of Christ would have died the eggs red. Now, if this happened or not, I do not know. But typically there is some truth in most oral traditions.This also reminds me of when my cousin got baptized and my aunt gave a talk. He was baptized around Easter. She had an egg that she told a story about how we go through our lives, and sometimes inadvertently we make mistakes, and sometime son purpose we sin, each time we do something wrong she dipped the egg in dye. The egg was no longer white, clean or pure. She allowed it to dry and she tried rubbing it, she even dipped it in water to try and make it come clean. Nothing worked. And then she had another glass, and she talked about how Christ can make us clean through baptism. and she dipped it in the cup and all the dirtiness came off and it was pure again (the cup was full of bleach). After we are done dying Easter Eggs, I go through this object lesson with one of the eggs. And talk about how Christ dying is what makes it possible for our sins to be washed away.
In my house we have always had our Passover meal on Thursday night because this is the night Jesus had his Passover meal. My sister has Passover meal the First night of Passover as dictated by Scripture. And honestly the more I study about Passover, the more I find that even devote Jews will have a Passover meal any time, sometimes multiple times, during the week of Passover.
In the past My Passover meal has consisted of the breaking of the Afikenomen and hiding it and finding it, and breaking it and sharing it. Then eating Gyros. The Afikenomen to me has always been the most important part of the meal, because it is what became the sacrament. If you were to do just one aspect of the Passover meal, This would be a good choice, but I am a bit biased. The Afikenomen is a piece of unleavened bread. Specifically it is the middle piece of a stack of 3 pieces. You have a stack of three Pieces of Unleavened bread, you pull out the middle piece, you break it in half, then wrap one of the broken halves in a white cloth, and hide it some place. After the meal is over the kids go find it. Traditionally this is one of the favorite parts for most kids during the Passover meal. When it is found, the leader of the meal then breaks it in pieces and shares it with everyone in the room. This is the point when Christ told his disciples "this you do in remembrance of me."
My sister for years has been telling me I need to do the whole Seder, and I decided this was the year. The whole purpose of the Seder meal is to teach the kids. This whole concept is fascinating to me. . My sister worked hard on preparing the Haggadah, and I helped edit it and add to it. There are many things you can do for the Passover meal and we have big plans for next year too. As soon as I figure out how to upload a copy of the PDF of the Haggadah I will.
There are so many fascinating connections and HOLY COW moments during this particular meal, but they are all explained in the Haggadah, so I need to get it uploaded.
John 12 talks about Mary anointing Christ's feet. But Matthew and Mark talk about the anointing of his feet. Many assume that these are the same instance and maybe miss translated, or just a different version of the same event. However John clearly says that the anointing takes place 6 days before pass over and Mark clearly says 2 days before the feast. So they are clearly two separate accounts. I for a long time have tried to figure out why he was anointed twice. Why his feet were anointed first and then his head anointed later. There had to be a reason. I had found so many symbols of the Passover fulfilled in Christ, I knew there had to be a reason for this one too.
I couldn't find instructions for the processing of the lambs for Passover. And then I stumbled upon it. The Passover lamb was a combination of all the sacrifices, so it had to meet all the requirements for the several different types of sacrifices. Burnt offerings were selected and their feet were anointed as part of the inspection process for their perfection. Scape goats were anointed on their head with the sins of the people before they were sent to the wilderness. Thus both requirements were fulfilled. His feet were anointed in preparation for the perfect offering, his head was anointed to prepare him to take him n the sins of the world.
Today we just a had a discussion of these events. I am open to ideas of activities or additional ideas for this day.
There is quite a lot of debate on the day the Christ cursed the fig tree. However, I figure it doesn't really matter a whole lot what day he cursed it. Really it just matters that it happened, and what we learn from it.
On his way into Jerusalem, sometime during his final week, Christ gets hungry and sees a fig tree along the road with leaves. Now to understand this story you must understand the life of a fig tree. First of all it is not the season for fig trees this early in spring, so there should not have been figs on the tree. However, figs grow before the leaves, and when the leaves come on, the figs should be ripe. So none of the other fig trees had figs, but they also didn't have leaves. So the tree was not cursed for not having figs as much as it was for pretending to be something it was not. Or for being showy, puffed up and prideful. Interesting to compare this to the other parables found in the next few Chapters.
Tuesday and Wednesday Christ spends at the temple teaching. But he isn't just teaching he is being scrutinized and judged by the Pharisees. This too fulfills the Passover traditions. Like mentioned on Palm Sunday the Jews brought the lamb into their home to watch it and make sure it had no faults, to make sure it really was perfect. The Pharisees were there watching THE LAMB scrutinizing him and trying to find Faults in him. Christ's Parables he teaches at this time are direct condemnations of the Pharisees, just like his cursing of the fig tree. (I need to list the parables and references)
Curly, our lamb, brought us a basket of fig newtons for dessert.
Today we learned about how Passover is often considered synonymous with The Feast at of Unleavened Bread. For 8 days the Jews not only avoid leaven but seek out every opportunity to eat Unleavened Bread. The leaven in bread is symbolic of pride because leavening puffs up bread, and pride puffs us up. So not only do they not eat leaven for eight days, they completely rid their homes of it, Spring Cleaning for the Jews is literally done religiously every spring during Passover. They cleanse their house and look for the leavening to get rid of.
At the same times the Jews were cleaning their house of the leaven and sin, Christ was cleaning his Father's house of the sin. This is discussed in all 4 gospels: Matthew 21:12–15; Mark 11:15–17; Luke 19:45–46; John 2:13–16 and there is a video clip depicting this event. After our discussion of the cleansing of the temple, the basket was full of eggs, each egg had a different task and a small amount of money, (anywhere from fifty cents to a couple of dollars). Then the kids got to open the egg. They got to keep all the money, but to open another egg they had to complete the task in the egg. We had a whole bunch of deep cleaning items I had been hoping to get done for a while. The money was just enough to get the kids motivated to do their job quickly but thoroughly. We then discussed how it is easier to feel of the spirit when our house is clean and in order and free of things that are distracting to the spirit.
Most Christians start Holy Week on Palm Sunday. This link has a good time line of Holy Week and the events that happened when. In our house Sunday morning the lamb stood with an Easter Basket. It was full of palm leaves and eggs. Some of the Eggs were numbered, We opened the numbered eggs to find out what scripture verses to read, which covered (Matthew 21:1-16) and to read questions that lead the discussion. We watched the new church clip about the Triumphal Entry.
After learning about Christ coming in on the donkey, and the people waving palm leaves we talked about how, after the Passover lamb was anointed they were then allowed to be chosen for the Passover, and that they were welcomed into the family home. And how the people yelling Hosanna was them accepting Christ as their Messiah, on the very same day that they were accepting the lamb to come into their home.
We then made a palm leaf wreath, to hang on the front door as a symbol that we accept Christ as our Savior. I got these palm leaves, simply hot glued them and tied a yellow ribbon at the top. And then we talked about other ways to show that we have accepted Christ. Ultimately we came to the decision we must follow his example and live like he did. So we must serve others. The 6 eggs left in the basket were all eggs withI feel like for years I have made Christmas special. Starting seven weeks before Christmas I do a Sunday devotional with my family about Christmas and give them something to focus on through the week. But Easter often falls short, almost as an after thought. So this year, starting in January I started planning Easter. I have studied and planned and studied and planned some more to make sure I get it right. I have spent weeks painting Easter Eggs with the story of the resurrection. I wanted to make sure I made it special so I took the whole holy week off to spend with my kids and make sure that it is a big deal. And thus it begins. . .
We Then talked about how if it wasn't still the pandemic we would have invited friends over just like Mary and Martha did, we would probably them cookies (probably not wash their feet). So Next year we hope to have friends over for cookies the Saturday before Holy week. But instead this time we got Daffodils for our Neighbors, tied a bow on them and made a Note card that explained that, "Daffodils have long been a Symbol of the Resurrection. They die, and then in the spring they come alive again and are often the first flower to bloom. We give the flower as a reminder of God's love and to thank you for your friendship. We hope you will plant the flower somewhere to remind you year after year of God's love for you."
In December I went and picked my daughter up from her friend’s house. Amongst all the many Christmas decorations ornamenting their shelves sat a beautiful Menorah. I immediately felt a
kinship with my daughter’s friend’s Mother. A fellow Christian celebrating Hanukkah, and why not?Several years ago (around 2001) I wrote a book about my Childhood Family's Traditions. I interviewed my siblings, Grandparents and parents, I compiled a few photos, and then I wrote it, hand printed it, hand bound it, and gave it to all of my siblings for a Christmas Present. This was all before the great computer programs of the day that would have done the formatting for me and made this a lot easier of a processed. Then several years later I decided to upload the book into a blog format, so that our children would be able to have access to this information. That was in 2009.
Now in 2021, my sister, Rosalie, and I have been studying the ancient commanded Holiday's in the bible. We have been learning about traditions of other faiths and have been enlightened by the truths we find in these. We have studied the American Founding, and see God's hand in the foundations of our country. We have seen prophecy from scriptures full filled and have wanted a place to share our new Family Traditions with other's. We are trying to figure out how to do a podcast and some other fun things to share this information, but decided a blog would be an easy way to start, while we figure the rest out. While trying to figure out a good name for our blog and pod cast we really liked Strong Family Traditions, and low and behold I already had a Blog named that. And we decided it might be helpful for people to be able to see some of our childhood traditions, that made us who we are today. Please join us in our Journey of Discovering and Creating Strong Family Traditions.
Somehow I managed to totally forget to take pictures, I NEVER do that! I was so sad. Yesterday was Tu B'shevat, which because it is a...