Shepherds Night

 Holidays and Traditions can either be a source of frustration or a source of heaven, often at the very same time.  This year I altered one of my favorite traditions to become even more splendid. I learned sometimes we try and do too much and try and make traditions too complicated and it makes it less fun. Simple is better.

Christmas Eve we always do a Shepherd's Night. We start off the night eating shepherd's pie, Have a game and read some books, scriptures, and traditionally make candy cane cookies.

Shepherd's Dinner

 

I realize that the shepherds really didn't eat shepherd's pie.  for the record most likely the shepherds ate fish, nuts, pomegranates, dates, figs, olives and other fruits that were easily dried, and pita bread.  we always set the table nice for our dinner but most likely shepherds ate on the ground with their fingers.  I thought about having a dinner with foods they ate and sitting on the ground. But my kids do not like fish, and are really not good about trying new foods like figs and dates, so I didn't want a battle on Christmas Eve, so we stick with our Shepherds Pie. But if you have more adventurous eaters it would be fun to have a real shepherds dinner.

 

Ye Shall Find the Babe

 

We then play a good game of Find baby Jesus. This is my kid's favorite Christmas tradition.  We swaddle a baby doll, and everyone dresses as a shepherd and then there is one Angel. My mom has a full set of nativity costumes, but on occasion I forget to borrow them and then we use towels and what ever we can find for ties around the head, and a pair of $1 store fairy wings, that works well too.

 

The Angel goes and hides baby Jesus somewhere in the house (while the shepherds are all waiting in a bedroom, or a bathroom or somewhere behind a closed door together).

 

And then the Angel comes and announces, "fear not, for behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, for unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord, ye shall find the babe wrapped in swaddling clothes lying in a manger"  Go find him. (the Angel then typically starts giggling uncontrollably in anticipation for the wild hunt to come)

 

 

 

Then the Shepherds disperse and look for baby Jesus. 

 

 

Who ever finds Baby Jesus gets to be the next angel and they swap costumes with the Angel

This is the point when the mom starts giggling uncontrollably because dad is dressed in a tutu and fairy wings

 

 

Shepherd Stories

This normally takes us pretty close to bed time so we just jump right into bed time stories.

Our long time favorite is J is for Jesus: the Sweetest Story Ever Told.

 

It is the story of the candy cane. My kids have loved it since they were itty bitty, so we continue to read it.  Though I am thinking of buy a couple other shepherd stories to read for next year.

I'm struggling to find any that really grab my attention so I am going to have to search the libraries and book stores. One off of amazon that looks like it might be cute is

The Greatest Shepherd of All

 

The Amazon description says: On Christmas Eve, Grandpa Woolly shares with three excited youngsters the story of the birth of Baby Jesus, and how three young sheep, much like themselves, met this greatest of all shepherds.

I will keep you posted if I find one that is just amazing.

We will also then read the scripture story of the shepherds.

Bed time

In the past we have slept on the ground all in one room together, just like the shepherds would have. the kids love this.  However I HATE sleeping on the floor, or actually I can't sleep on the floor so I have given this up, but my kids do all have a slumber party together in one room in the house.

cookies

Growing up we always made Christmas cookies for Santa Claus. I tried to carry this Christmas tradition on in my family. To tie in with the shepherd theme we made Candy Cane cookies after we read the J is for Jesus book. They are most delicious.  However, this is exactly what I am talking about by trying to add too much in to our traditions, this was just too much and it stressed me out. So I cut this out, don't worry I will provide the Heavenly Recipe. But this year we simply bought Santa his favorite cookies, Oreos, and called it good.  It just occurred to me that maybe next year we will buy him candy cane Oreos.  Now for our divine Chocolate Candy Cane Cookies

 

Our Shepherd Tradition

As part of our seven weekly devotionals before Christmas, one is based on the shepherds. While we have a shepherds night typically on Christmas Eve, this is a separate devotional we do  three Sunday's before Christmas to help us focus all season long on Christ. We learn about the shepherds, put the shepherd in the nativity scene and do an activity that has to do with the Shepherds.

This year we focused in on how the shepherds didn't just keep the good news to themselves, they went and spread the good news all over. So we decided, (ok so really it was I decided) it would be a good idea to deliver neighborhood gifts on this night, and to make sure they too spread the good word. 

You can't really tell by this picture, but we got HUGE candy canes, and put the legend of the Candy Cane on it. We then took it around.

You can find many versions of the legend of the candy cane, some short, some long, some stories, some poems.  My favorite is J is for Jesus, a board book with a cute poem in it. My sister really likes The Legend of the Candy Cane, they read it every year too. I found a shorter version on the internet and just printed it up and tied it on to each Giant Candy Cane.

We came home and warmed up by drinking candy cane hot cocoa and reading J is for Jesus.  It was a splendid evening.

 

Our Angel Tradition

The angel devotional takes place four weeks before Christmas.

 I imagine the same angel that spoke to Mary about her upcoming pregnancy, and Joseph about supporting Mary in her pregnancy was probably the same angel that made the announcement to the shepherds that the baby was born. I often wonder how an angel is chosen to be the one to make such announcements. 

Here is a personal disclosure.  I love to sing. But I am not at all good at singing. In fact, I am so bad at singing my baby daughter cries every time I sing. I am not offended, I think it is kind of funny that she is so young and already knows how horrible I am. My poor other kids have grown up with me singing to them every night, and they are just trained to think I am good, they have no idea how bad I am. But I like to think, that in the Pre-earth life I wasn't so bad at singing, and I like to pretend that maybe I was part of the heavenly host singing about the birth of the Savior.

Anyhow, to celebrate the angel I would love to take my family Christmas Caroling, but that is WAY out of my comfort zone, think if the 18 month old cries, what adults would do when they heard me sing, I would be publicly shamed. So instead, we sing every Christmas Hymn we can think of this night. And then for the rest of the month we sing a song or two at night when we say our family prayers.  I think this is one of my favorite traditions.

Our Joseph Tradition

 If you are looking for a real simple way of adding Christ into your traditions Emily Belle Freeman has a great book out there. Christ Centered Christmas. you can get the adult version.

 But really I love the children's version

I love them because they go through the nativity and one by one, you add the nativity pieces, talk about them, learn about them and it has a simple activity to do. I love that it has figured it all out.  There are seven mini lessons, We do them the seven Sundays leading up to Christmas. But you could do them the seven days before Christmas, or just randomly through out the year. Some of the activities I swap out with my own.  BUT I LOVE THAT IF I DON'T WANT TO I DON'T HAVE TO THINK! 

But for instance Joseph

It talks about how he quietly went about cleaning and getting everything ready for the baby. I totally agree that Joseph was the quiet hero that often gets over looked. I love how the activity for Joseph is to chose a secret act of service the Family can participate in.  Joseph is the second mini lesson, so this happens for us six weeks before Christmas. We either start our secret person swap at this time, when we all draw a family member's name out of a hat and serve them for that week, and then we do that again each week leading up to Christmas. Or we pull out our Manger to fill with hay.  When you do something nice, for anyone, you can put a piece of hay in the manger.

This is mine, it came in a set called, Soft Enough for a King.

But you can find all sorts of them. with the same concept, or you can simply get just any manger, and it will work. I think this set looks really cute.

I think this is one of my favorite traditions.